to download the HARDWARE version gold patch(it's the only place I've found that has it).
Now download this glide wrapper here: http://www.zeckensack.de/glide/
and install it.
Go to the directory where you installed the Glide Wrapper:

Then open the INI file called "glide_wrapper.zbag.ini":

Copy and paste an extra profile and make one for i76.exe, nitro.exe and splash.exe :

Should look like this when done:

Now open the "configurator" and make sure all 3 profiles are in the list:

Once you know it's in there, click the "resolution" tab and click "try high res"

For the refresh rate, I chose 72, but this is an area where it depends on your monitor. For single player I'd recommend 60hz.

For the Vsync, I chose always off. Again, change to your liking on this one.
For single player mode I'd recommend NORMAL.

And finally, the resolution. This is going to depend on your monitor alone.
*EDIT* Apparently the resolution maxes out @1280x960, even though the
higher resolutions are availible in the menu. So anything above 1280 won't do anything. It's still better than 640x480 though!
DON'T GO ABOVE YOUR MONITOR's RECOMMENDED RESOLUTION OR YOU WILL KILL YOUR MONITOR!

One last thing. If you CAN'T get the option of 3dfx to pop up on the lauching screen(nitro OR gold), make a shortcut to nitro.exe OR i76.exe with the -glide extension under the shortcut's properties, so it'll look like this: "Nitro.exe -glide"(without quotes). Works great for me!
Here's some screens @1280x960 8x aniso and 4x AA:


Lemme know if you have any questions. ENJOY!